终身大事

亲爱的, after attending her cousin's wedding, she felt that she is missing something in life. Last week, she told me that at 22, it is easy to find a more capable guy as a husband. Her definition of capable is: has a stable income, owns an expensive car, and a property. As she gets older, it will be difficult. I disagreed with her because due to the imbalance of male to female ratio, she can get a good husband at any age. Then I site examples like girls who live in Beijing and Shanghai don't get married until they are in their late 20s. Anyway, that conversation led to "what is our plan?" I told her honestly that I don't have an answer for her. I felt that she is still immature, and even if I intend to marry her, I would wait until she's 25 or older. By then, she would know what she really wants in life. She said she couldn't wait that long as it is not going to be fair to her. She would have lost her youth appeal, but I can always look for another 亲爱的 to replace her. I told her: You are my first, and will also be my last. Although I enjoy loving you, I don't want to go through that journey again. First, it is not easy to find true love in China, and second, 99% of China girls cannot be trusted, so nobody but you.

火锅

I actually love to eat 火锅 since I dated my 亲爱的. When Beijing is so cold last week, eating 火锅 has kept us warm. We went to 海底捞，which is her favourite 火锅 restaurant in Beijing.





While waiting for the food to be cooked, 亲爱的 has to admire herself using her iPhone mirror. Can't understand why she is so fucking vain ( but I like it that way).



That night, we hanged out in Suzie Wong bar. No wonder there is still a place for Singaporeans to work in China. Look at their Chinglish.

New Year Resolution for 2010 (Update 1)

1. Get a job in China, so that I can move in to stay with my 亲爱的。
2. Teach my 亲爱的 to speak better English.
3. Find her a better paying job.
4. Help her to pay up housing loan.
5. Bring my 亲爱的 for holidays.
6. Bring her for Brite Smile teeth whitening treatment.
7. Show her around in Singapore.
8. Get her to squirt.
9. Cum in her mouth. Task Completed
10. Get her to swallow.

Wanted: Brides for China

Today's Sunday Times has an interesting article about a serious social problem in China. There are not enough female brides, so parents are helping their sons to hunt for a wife at a very early age. The problem is due to the imbalance of male to female ratio in China, and by 2020, there will be 24 million Chinese men without wives.

What causes this social issue? First, it is the traditional Chinese thinking that sons are the only valid heir of the family. Due to the one child policy, households in rural China did their best to give birth to a boy even at the risk of defying “one child policy” and being heavily fined. Others perform sex selective abortion, although this is illegal. On top of that, men from Singapore, Hong Kong and Taiwan join in the competition for mistresses and girlfriends. Then there are some girls that are exported to other parts of Asia as prostitutes in massage palours, KTV nite clubs, brothels. No wonder there are not many girls left in China.

My 亲爱的's 堂妹 was married last week, altough she barely knows her husband. It was an introduction by her aunt 2 months ago. His family is her aunt's neighbour. They dated for a while, and then the guy's family propose that they should get married. It is definitely a smart move; can't take the chance to allow other guys to come in between. From what I heard, the guy's family is well-to-do, and own some property in Chengdu. 亲爱的's 堂妹 is a very simple girl. I met her while we went to Guangzhou last year. I hope she has made the right decision.

It is really interesting to know that parents are trying very hard to help their children to match make. If the girl agrees to go dating with the guy, then the guy's family will have to give a token of a few thousand RMB to the girl's family. This is a good income generating activity and could start a trend for more daughters.

I don't think the communist party can do anything to help the 24 million bachelors, not unless they start promoting gay relationship.

麻将虫

Occassionally I chat with 亲爱的's 表姐, who lives in Chengdu through QQ. The conversation can be quite interesting.

宝贝 4:35:08 PM
在啊？忙吗？
亲爱的4:35:42 PM
你好
宝贝4:35:47 PM
好
亲爱的4:35:56 PM
你在家吗？
宝贝4:35:56 PM
恩 你回成都吗
宝贝4:36:04 PM
我妹妹要回来
亲爱的 4:36:11 PM
不。。。
亲爱的 4:37:00 PM
没有请我吧
宝贝4:37:15 PM
请你老婆就请你了撒？
亲爱的 4:37:20 PM
也不好意思见你们的家人
宝贝4:37:46 PM
回来喝喜酒
亲爱的 4:37:55 PM
呵呵。。
亲爱的 4:38:05 PM
老婆没有叫我去。。
宝贝4:38:28 PM
哈哈
亲爱的 4:38:32 PM
她还没有准备要把我介绍给亲戚
宝贝4:38:44 PM
是吗？
亲爱的 4:38:53 PM
嗯。。
亲爱的 4:39:30 PM
是在酒楼吗？
宝贝4:39:38 PM
恩
宝贝4:39:58 PM
人多哦!好耍的很,可是你又不回来
亲爱的 4:40:10 PM
呵呵
亲爱的 4:40:27 PM
老婆只是回十天。。
亲爱的 4:40:40 PM
其实。。下个星期我也没有空
亲爱的 4:40:47 PM
要去美国开会。。。
宝贝4:40:53 PM
她定的来回机票
亲爱的 4:41:10 PM
恩。。我帮她定的
宝贝4:41:14 PM
哦？你安逸哦？到处跑？羡慕你了
亲爱的 4:41:37 PM
哎呀。。去工作。。也没什么好玩的
亲爱的 4:42:32 PM
去一个星期就回了
宝贝4:43:38 PM
羡慕
亲爱的 4:43:49 PM
你在忙工作吗。。好像有一会儿没看到你上网
宝贝4:44:22 PM
恩 不打扰你了
亲爱的 4:45:58 PM
没事。。老婆还没睡醒。。打电话给他不听
亲爱的 4:46:16 PM
昨晚又打麻将了
宝贝4:46:48 PM
哦？她麻将虫了
亲爱的 4:47:13 PM
是啊！！！
亲爱的 4:47:34 PM
还有斗地主呢
宝贝4:48:24 PM
哦

The Story of Coco

We always hear different kinds of stories about PRC ladies using their charm to cheat Singapore men, from a few thousand dollars to hundreds of thousands of dollars. Some retirees even gave away their hard earn CPF money to exchange for "love". There are also cases where these ladies married Singapore men for the sake of getting a Singapore citizenship. On the other hand, I have not heard of PRC girls in Singapore cheated by Singapore men, not until I met Coco.

I met Coco through QQ chat. She is 24, came from Shandong, and studying hotel management in Singapore. Unlike other PRC girls who hold student passes, but work as nite club girls, Coco comes from a well-to-do family and her parents has paid for her tuition fees and her living expenses here. She's doing her third year, and should be done in another 9 months. When she first came to Singapore 2 years ago, she worked part-time as a sales promoter in computer exhibition to make extra pocket money. She met a Singapore guy called Joe, in his 40s. He came over to the booth to enquire for laptops, and has asked for Coco's phone number. After a few days, Joe began to court Coco and asked her out. Since Coco is lonely in Singapore, she obliged. They went out, and since then, they see each other very regularly. They became a couple. Half a year later, Coco discovered that Joe is a married man. Joe persuaded Coco to continue the relationship. He told her that he didn't love his wife anymore, and promised to marry her. Coco is so naive and believe every single word he said. A few months later, he started asking money from Coco to pay for his debts. He also became abusive and they started to have quarrels and fights. This relationship continued for 1.5 years and Coco finally decided to give up on him. Coco told me that she has tried to commit suicide twice during the 1.5 years. They have separated 3 months ago, and Coco is under depression. She is still love Joe, and cannot let him go. I wish I can help, but all I can do is to lend a listening ear.

Today, I received a message from Coco that she is going back to Shandong. She didn't say for how long. She may going back for good, as she hate Singapore men. Well I wish Coco all the best, and hope that she can start a new life there.

A Pretty Girl's Worst Nightmare

My 亲爱的 likes to admire herself in the mirror, and she takes lots of self potraits using her iPhone. I must agee that she's quite pretty, and receives a lot of stares when she goes out. Surprisingly, she doesn't enjoy people looking at her, and she'll complain to me WTF these guys are so irritating. Like any other vain girls, she uses different types of expensive cometics. Some of her collection were bought by me from the Changi Airport. This is what I got for her during my last trip to Xiamen.



亲爱的 heard from her friends that Amway cosmetics is very effective. Just before our Xiamen trip, a door-to-door Amway salesman went to her house, and she bought 2 bottles of something at a 80% discount off. She forget that she's living in China, and fake items are very common. After 2 days, her face turned out to be like this.



Obviously the substance in the bottle has caused eczema on her face. For the few days, she felt terrible. She didn't want to go out, and used her hands to cover her face when talking to me. She said that if this is permanent, she would rather die. She has lost her self esteem. Well, I told her that God wanted you to be ugly for a week, so that you know how ugly girls feel. next time, if you see someone ugly on the street, you shoud feel sorry. To proof that I still love her as much, we made love during the few days. Now that she has recovered, the vain girl started taking self potraits again.

New Year Resolution for 2010

New Year's Eve has always been a time for looking back to the past, and more importantly, forward to the coming year. Here is my New Year resolution:

1. Get a job in China, so that I can move in to stay with my 亲爱的。
2. Teach my 亲爱的 to speak better English.
3. Find her a better paying job.
4. Help her to pay up housing loan.
5. Bring my 亲爱的 for holidays.
6. Bring her for Brite Smile teeth whitening treatment.
7. Show her around in Singapore.
8. Get her to squirt.
9. Cum in her mouth.
10. Get her to swallow.

I wonder how many of these can be achieved.....