包养 A Mistress

Happened to come across this post in an adult forum:


'I am an ABC, I work in the finance industry and I guess I spent at least 7 months a year in Beijing. I speak Mandarin fluently. I am in my late 40s. I am interested in finding out how to "包养" a mistress in Beijing, particularly a college girl type. A few of my Chinese business associates are definitely doing this but I don't know them well enough to ask. So any thoughts?'


In the olden days, concubines were status symbols in imperial China. China's economic boom has led to a revival of the Chinese tradition of keeping mistresses. It is natural that men like beautiful girls, as there is a Chinese saying 窈窕淑女 君子好逑. When there's demand, there is supply. The worship of materialism with the China girls has led them to look for guys who can provide them with a luxurious lifestyle, and it doesn't matter if there is love between them. My 亲爱的 has a friend from Si Chuan, Sue. She's very cute looking. Sue is 1 year younger than my 亲爱的 and she was brought up in the 农村. Her parents are farmers. At the age of 18, Sue was 包养 by a 老头, in his late fifties. She called him Godfather. Her godfather has rented an apartment in Chengdu and housed her there. Every morning, he would bring food to Sue, and relieve his sexual urge. Sue never love him, but because she was tired of hardship, she picked the easy way out. When they went out, they didn't hold hands, but she would walk behind him. Sue has stayed with the old man for two years, and during this period, he has supported Sue with several businesses, but none has succeeeded. Eventually she decided to leave him, after she found her true love, a guy in his twenties from a well-to-do family. However, this love story didn't last as his parents objected to the relationship as they felt that her family is too poor for their son. They broke off, and Sue was really hurt. Sue has moved to Beijing and is now staying with my 亲爱的. She's trying to forget the past and hopefully can find a new life in Beijing, and she won't rule out being 包养 again.