Sue has returned to Chengdu. In fact we met at the Beijing Airport on Thursday afternoon as I was on the 4:00pm flight back to Singapore, while she was on the 4:30pm flight back to Chengdu. 亲爱的 was there to send us off. After receiving our boarding passes, we sat at Burger King until boarding time.
Sue said that she is only going back for 10 days. Thereafter, she'll be back to Beijing again, together with her Singapore boyfriend. Her boyfriend is going to work in Beijing for a few weeks before they go to Singapore together.
Sue said that when she's home, she'll get her passport done, and her boyfriend would apply a visa for her to come to Singapore. She asked if 亲爱的 can come along with her. It's actually not a bad idea. Sue's boyfriend can play host while they are here, as I won't be able to accompany them for the entire day. Moreover, if they can stay in her boyfriend's house, that could save some money on hotel expenses.
Sue's boyfriend didn' know that she has all along been living in Beijing. She told him that she's working in Chengdu, and when her Singapore boyfriend suggested that he visits her in Chengdu, she decides to return home to see him. I told Sue that Singapore men dislike dishonesty. For whatever reason even if it is 善意的谎言，she should not lie to him. Moreover, Singapore men are not so stupid. There are loopholes in her lies. Sue thinks that her boyfriend is going to believe in every word she says.
The Singapore trip is still a long way to go. I doubt if their relationship could last for the next 2 months. She's been telling too many lies to her boyfriend. I seriously doubt if her boyfriend can be so stupid, or just pretends to be stupid. For my 亲爱的, I'm glad she doesn't lie to me. She's one of the rare China dolls that doesn't know how to tell a good lie.
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Hi 老陈， really never expect to see your blog. It is a total surprise to me. Wonder who am I?
ReplyDeleteI am the Stupid Singaporean you are talking about, that singaporean that dated Sue.
When I saw your writing, I really felt pain in my heart. To tell you honesty, I actually believed in her, That is why I called myself stupid now. Your 亲爱的ever told me about Sue past, but when I asked Sue, she denied total. This I can understand because since she wanted a new life, she will no let her past ruin her. Sue said that your 亲爱的is jealous about our relationship so saying things to hurt it.
I am really stupid to believed that Sue is in Chengdu during that period. She told me is back on the 11 march and started working there.
There is one thing I need to know hope you can help me with the answer. Is she working in Beijing during that period??
Now I awake finally. Thanks Bro for your info, if not don't know how long I will still be buried in her lies... Marriage.. NEVER!!!
Hi Bro,
ReplyDeleteIt's a small world, isn't it? I don't know how on earth you have discovered my blog, but please keep this a secret. I like to keep a diary of my experience, and I don't mean to hurt anyone or break up any relationship. Also, my 亲爱的 doesn't know that I have written about Sue. If she knows about it, she would stop me from writing again.
You can't blame her for telling lies. Which China girl doesn't tell lie? It is their upbringing that cultivate that kind of characteristic. Let's get real. Whether or not she's in Beijing, she needs to make a living. She's not financially dependent on you, right?
I heard that you are supposed to be in Chengdu for 2 weeks, but left early. It looks like things haven't been working out for both of you. If you need to talk, you can get my number from my 亲爱的。Sue is a very nice and down to earth girl, despite her dishonesty.
I've been cheated by a Sichuan girl in Singapore too. But that's life. And life moves on.
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